Everybody needs friends. But some people are not able to make friends. Not because they do not want to but because of their social conditioning, personality type and also not knowing how to go about it.
We should understand that we can only make someone a friend by friendly gestures and affection for one another. We can not go around gathering friends at gun point.
I will share some SUPER Tips today by which everybody can make friends by following some simple steps. Here we go.
SUPER TIP-NO-1 : Join a Club or Hobby Group.
This way you could find friends with whom you may not even have a common hobby but you may like each other’s company. Great ones to join are a Card Group, Dance Group – Salsa, Ballroom or any similar – or a musical class. Or anything else that interest you.
Not only you will learn a new hobby, but get regular interactions without which a bonding can NOT be developed. A Card group is always the top one since it develops familiarity faster than any other activity.
SUPER TIP-NO-2 : Use Online and Offline Technique.
Online social media can be a great way to connect with people. Trick is to first meet them online and then convert it to offline meeting.
Write down two subjects of interest to you. Maybe a hobby like dancing or music. Or maybe a new skill that you would like to acquire like learning a foreign language. Then go online looking for people in these two specific areas. There are plenty of places like Facebook groups, websites like meet.com, chat rooms and forums which would belong to the two subjects of your interest.
You will soon find someone near to where you live and in your age group. Chat with each other. Video chat is important to judge whether it’s the right type of person.
Once familiar, it will be time to invite him/her for a coffee at his/her place of choosing – just to say hello. Anyone who tries it in this structured manner is bound to find some success.
You should realize that you are not the only one. There are huge number of people like you who are also looking for friends.
SUPER TIP-NO-3: Join A Spiritual Satsang.
This is a bullet proof method. In India, these come in all shapes and sizes. Trick is to attend smaller ones which are usually held at homes. Not the mass gatherings. Believe me that a common spiritual interest provides one of the fastest connect.
Satsang is one of the best group of persons where there is no personal agenda and a strong common thread which can last a lifetime. No other activity can match this. You would never be short of friends in life – once you enter this world.
THE TAKEAWAY
The tips given in this video are well proven. Go ahead and give it a go. I can assure you that if you follow these Three Super Tips then within 3-months, you will come back and thank this video.
When you have zero friends, the numbers do not matter. A single friend is better than none. Now, just go ahead and make friends.